I had my gastric sleeve 2 1/2 yrs ago and met my goal 10 months ago. That was a 175 lb weight loss. Then my biggest fear came to fruition, I gained weight back (50 lb ) and did not do well on maintenance. Since September I have been eating high protein low carb and correct portions. Weight is coming off and I am only 13 lb away from my goal again. This second round has been really hard. Harder then the first time. Immediately following surgery the weight came off so fast and going down in clothes sizes was so rewarding. Everything was new and shiny. After my maintenance fiasco, this weight loss round has been much harder emotionally. Not only am I feeling like I am cleaning up a mess I made , but after 2 1/2 yrs of eating different from everyone I am finding that socializing is difficult. So many gatherings with friends and family do center around food at each other’s home or out at restaurants. I feel like I am an outsider and standing out by always getting the steamed veggies, grilled meats or salads with vinger only as a dressing. Don’t get me wrong the weight loss has given me a new lease on life but lately I just feel a little separated from the group because of my inability to participate in foods or even an alcoholic toast on a special occasion. Some of my friends and family have even made comments that I need to have a drink every now and then or allow myself to eat what others are having. Has or is anyone else having these kinds of feelings? If so please share how you are coping with these situations. Thank you.