At my heaviest I was 315lbs. I got down to 270 lbs before surgery, I was huge and unhappy. After my surgery the weight started co.ING off but I still couldn't help but think "I am fat" I have went from a size 26 to a size 12 and from a 3to4x shirt to a LARGE yet o still see myself as too big. I look in the mirror and I see the difference or looking at pictures I see it but I can't make myself believe what I see. How does one deal with the mental part of this? I was doing ok until I started planning my upcoming wedding and now it's like all I see is fat and what needs improved. My family don't understand and I do t really have anyone to talk to so I am turning here. I need someone to talk to , I feel as if I am going g through this mental game all alone. Please any advise is appreciated.