The waiting I think is the worst part. From start to finish, my journey before surgery was just over four months. Two months to get everything done and then the rest of the time to wait. It was an emotional time. I was denied one because the insurance claimed the doctor didn't send in enough of my tracked weight for the last four years. It was hard but worth the wait. I lost 15 pounds before surgery, even though it wasn't a requirement. Since my surgery on Feb. 25, 2013, I have lost another 47 pounds. Just remember, you're not alone. Many people can help you here if you have any questions. Good luck getting a date for surgery! A week after I was approved I was given a date. So, soon!