we scattered his ashes on the flag bed during winter (he died in November 2006), a year after. Then I took more of his ashes and spread them to every important place he'd been in the state.
Every time I feel like a failure, I think of my dad. He thought he was a failure and could never live up to his dad. Even when he was working at Rocky Reach, raising 8 kids, he was only paid $400 a month. He never had the self-esteem to ask for what he was worth. He bought these Seahawk medallions, thinking they'd be really expensive some day. Once when I was broke, he mailed them to me and told me not to tell the other kids. He thought I could sell them and be a little better off, but they're only worth a few bucks. I thought, when I was growing up, that he was cheap. But later I realized he was just bad at money management and didn't have any money to manage, anyway. He'd cut huge bouquets of glads and dahlias and take them around town, to restaurants he frequented, so they'd have flowers on the table. Never charged them a dime. I don't know how I could have survived my family without him. He was the only person who saw the talents and abilities in me.
Before WWII, we didn't have an air force, but we did have Army Air Corps, which he joined. He was a radio man and was stationed in India. But he wanted to be a pilot:
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As they say, Aim High!