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My surgery is postponed indefinately

love2read

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Hi, I'm one that lives in a very isolated area. My surgery date was August 16th. The nurse called to let me know that the hospital doesn't have staples. The hospital told her that it may be here in 4 to 6 weeks. A container ship comes to the island periodically. COVID-19 has created shortages in some grocery store items or other products have been substituted. I understand that there's a pandemic. It's an isolated area, I'm just glad the ship brings food here. I never thought it would interfere with my surgery. I think my surgery is postponed indefinitely because the supply chains are so messed up that I don't think those staples are going to make it here anytime soon.

I was on my third day of clear fluids and constant hunger (with 6oz meat/fish and some type of lettuce once a day). All of that was wasted. At least I know how I will feel on the clear fluids. Yes, I'm whining. I'll try to stop.

I had to inform my boss that I won't be on leave. I told him that the hospital didn't have an item needed for the surgery. I wasn't going to tell him it was the staples. Some things are best left unsaid.

I'm okay if I have to wait to have the surgery. Nothing bad is going to happen to me if I wait. I have a great surgeon. I have to find out if I need to see the surgeon and the dietician once a month. I probably do need to see them. I may have to go through the insurance approval process again. The hospital doesn't have control over logistics during the time of COVID-19.

On the bright side, I ate a lunch today that was not a protein shake, diet raspberry jello, a small amount of Greek yogurt, or 10 calories of fat-free chicken broth. For everyone who is on that diet, every day it's bringing you closer to your surgery date, so hang in there.
 
Yikes! That is unfortunate. I hope that they can get you in soon. I was postponed for a few months last year due to covid, as they weren't doing elective surgeries. It's hard to be up in the air like this, not having any idea of when you might be back on the list. You should be proud of yourself for handling it so well.
 
I’m really sorry about the postponement! You’re allowed to whine and be disappointed because I know a lot of us would be and those are totally valid feelings. I guess nows the time to have some foods you didn’t get the chance to before starting liquids LOL I’m trying to look on the bright side ;)
 
I went to get a hamburger for lunch after I found out I could eat again. I haven't had a fast-food
Yikes! That is unfortunate. I hope that they can get you in soon. I was postponed for a few months last year due to covid, as they weren't doing elective surgeries. It's hard to be up in the air like this, not having any idea of when you might be back on the list. You should be proud of yourself for handling it so well.

I haven't had a fast-food hamburger, or any other hamburger, in about 2 years. I didn't handle it well.. I cried on the phone when the nurse told me about it. I was in my office crying at work. It takes an awful lot, like a death, to get me to cry at work.
 
I’m really sorry about the postponement! You’re allowed to whine and be disappointed because I know a lot of us would be and those are totally valid feelings. I guess nows the time to have some foods you didn’t get the chance to before starting liquids LOL I’m trying to look on the bright side ;)
Three was no bright side, only that I can eat what I want. In my case, that's not a good idea.. If I lose 35 pounds on my own I won't qualify for the surgery. My problems with food are such that I believe I need to have this surgery. I know I will need self-control after the surgery. Like, no grazing on m&ms all day. If I don't buy things like that, it won't be a problem,. Realistically, I won't lose that much even if turned out to be a 4-month delay.
 
I'm so sorry. You are handling this very well. It's a shame another hospital couldn't mail some too your hospital. Hang in there, I think everything happens for a reason.

I appreciate the sympathy. There's the more dangerous and more deadly Delta variant out there. In comparison,
Yikes! That is unfortunate. I hope that they can get you in soon. I was postponed for a few months last year due to covid, as they weren't doing elective surgeries. It's hard to be up in the air like this, not having any idea of when you might be back on the list. You should be proud of yourself for handling it so well.
I’m really sorry about the postponement! You’re allowed to whine and be disappointed because I know a lot of us would be and those are totally valid feelings. I guess nows the time to have some foods you didn’t get the chance to before starting liquids LOL I’m trying to look on the bright side ;)
Yes, but I gained 7 pounds last time I was weighed. at the surgeon's office. I'll need to show up with some weight loss. Hopefully, I won't go back for a month. There was some ice cream involved last night.
the delay is really nothing. I'm still upset about it. It took me at least 15 years to finally decide to do this. However, the delay still bothers me.
 
You are in my thoughts and prayers love2read. Try not to completely lose control just in case the unexpected happens and the staples arrive.

If it were me I would have had the hamburger too, but remember you waited 15 years for this. You want to be ready when the staples arrive.

Noone can predict how long anything will take with covid. My doctor told me yesterday that there is already a booster shot for the delta version soon to be released.

I know how hard it is at times like this, believe me, I know. It feels like the universe is against you. It isn't. Things will work out, it may not be on the schedule you had hoped for but it will happen.

In the meantime, you've got a lot of great people here who care about you and want to help support you through this and to keep you on the right track so that when the staples do arrive you will
be able to have your surgery.
 
My heart goes out to you for this unexpected delay. You are stronger than you probably give yourself credit for, having thiscome this far on your journey.

As frustrating as this seems, maybe you can use this extra time to revisit past posts here to help you prepare for your eventual surgery, including gathering supplies, recipes, etc.

Please remember you have plenty of support and helpful advice here. Best of luck!
 
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