I am in the 6-month waiting period from my insurance and don't have a surgery date yet but have told a few people so far. In the beginning, I was really considering not telling anyone but then as I got more excited about the process and the thought of better health, I decided to share my news. I was shocked that my family members I have told have all been very encouraging with it and supportive. My friend on the other hand who also has a weight issue has been not supportive at all. She likes to tell me all the horror stories and so on. I am wishing I had not told her. Goes to show, you never know how people will respond.