Lots of people giving me a hard time about having it done in Mexico. Any advice?
I don't really understand why you're coming here at virtually the last minute to ask the opinion of a group of strangers about a major decision in your life.
Nobody signs up for surgery in Mexico because they have heard about their fine medical training and world-class facilities. People have surgery in Mexico because it's cheaper and you don't need to meet stringent qualifications insurance companies in the US would require.
Even a cursory examination of Internet Resources reveals that surgery in Mexico is at best a risky proposition. Realistically you're taking a risk with your life. And if you cross the border, you have crossed into international territory where you have no legal standing. If something goes wrong, you are on your own.
So if some of us address you and say you should cancel the surgery and go through common channels available to every American citizen in the United States, are you going to then cancel your Mexican surgery? We don't even know that you are really having surgery in Mexico because you joined this group an hour ago, to ask one question, and now you're nowhere in sight.
For the edification of everyone here I will simply state the obvious: If you choose to go to another country to seek medical care, you are on your own. If your friends and family are warning you against it and you still intend to do it, again, you are on your own. If you come to an anonymous internet support group seeking some kind of advice, you are worse than on your own because you're asking complete strangers to weigh in on a decision where your life is involved.
Why don't you go ahead and post the name and internet address of the clinic where you're going to have your surgery done, so we can do some actual research on the place? We can find out what their mortality rate is. We can find reviews for this any legitimate clinic all over the world. If we don't know the name of the clinic you're asking strangers for their opinion about, you're dealing with an incredible abstraction. Bariatric surgery is serious major surgery that removes and alters your internal organs for the rest of your life. It is a reconstruction of the organs you were born with in order to correct a critical condition that has the potential to kill you, whether you have surgery or not.
This is not a frivolous question, to be tossed out onto the universe, as if you're rolling a pair of dice.
A real fear of losing your life is what pushed you to consider bariatric surgery in the first place. Now you're asking complete strangers to weigh in on another element of choice that can take your life. I am absolutely not going to share my opinion with you.
And I'm going to say what I always say: call your doctor. If you go ahead to a strange place that may be nothing more than a rehabbed dental office in a foreign country and give a stranger permission to cut and snip and so your body open and closed, again, you. Are. On. Your. Own.
Again.
And if I have been in any way vague in my response to your post, let me be completely clear right now. If this is how you are approaching major surgery, you are obviously not prepared for the surgery, or for the life you will live afterward.