dianeseattle
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Does anyone have any advice for me regarding accountabilty? I have so many gifts, like knowing bad from good, giving when i can't afford it, doing the dirty work like picking up a cat or a dog carcass that's just been hit by a car, stepping into a domestic violence situation to stop it, shit like that.
But I lack self-accountability when it comes to cleaning, washing dishes, showering, doing laundry, organizing, meeting deadlines. I read with loving envy how people go out for walks while dinner cooks, how others create gatherings, how they take resonsibility when no one else will.
I have boxes of papers I need to sort out. They seem to breed and take over. I packed up my possessions intending to move on NOVEMBER 2019. when that didn't happen I left them in storage and pay $105 every month to keep them there.
I'm not sure advice will help. I think I need a people to make it better. I've been thinking of getting a pet, but I'm still hurting from losing my Isabelle more than a year ago.
I'll be talking with my mental health professional tomorrow. I'll tell her all this. But if you have any ideas, I'd love to hear them.
But I lack self-accountability when it comes to cleaning, washing dishes, showering, doing laundry, organizing, meeting deadlines. I read with loving envy how people go out for walks while dinner cooks, how others create gatherings, how they take resonsibility when no one else will.
I have boxes of papers I need to sort out. They seem to breed and take over. I packed up my possessions intending to move on NOVEMBER 2019. when that didn't happen I left them in storage and pay $105 every month to keep them there.
I'm not sure advice will help. I think I need a people to make it better. I've been thinking of getting a pet, but I'm still hurting from losing my Isabelle more than a year ago.
I'll be talking with my mental health professional tomorrow. I'll tell her all this. But if you have any ideas, I'd love to hear them.