Diane don’t you have a birthday coming up?
Roni, you big silly! Haven't I hinted broadly enough about that?
You know, over my life in various eras that have been defined by things like health food, drugs, money, vegetarianism, free love, etc., I've had mixed feelings about my birthday. Allow me to bitch a little about it. I had seven siblings and they all had birthdays during the school year, so it was like, go to school, tell everyone to come over after school, mom bakes a cake while you're out, and instant party as soon as you come home. Except me. Man, I wanted a birthday party so bad. but in the 1950s that just didn't happen that way.
that really didn't matter when I got older because I was partying every weekend after the bars closed. I definitely made up for lost time.
Yes, I'll be 72 on the 23rd. Is anyone here older than that? I can say for sure I wouldn't be so healthy or look so good if it hadn't been for RYGB. Even though I was thin most of my life, I gained a ton after having thyroid disease, and couldn't take it off. Only surgery worked to do that.
I'm not so worried about death and aging because I'm looking forward to the end, for one big reason. I'm a cadaver donor at the University OF Washington, where I'd been in a 7-year study after having WLS. they get to take me apart and see how (or if) surgery affected any of my organs, how much fat I have and where it's located, whether or not I lived longer than I traditionally should have because of my surgery, etc. Two of my siblings have already died largely because of diabetes, and diabetes was a big contributor to my dad's health and early death.
My health is awesome. Most people think I'm in my 40s or even younger. I do hard things, equally with men, toting the same boxes or hiking the same mountains, and that's largely because of the surgery. It was the best decision of my life. But truthfully, allowing myself to get fat was the only real damage I ever did to myself.
Anyway, thanks for the mention and allow me to say Happy Birthday to you and anyone else in our group who never brings it up. That you choose to be here is such a blessing for the rest of us. And Roni, you know, especially, how my heart goes out to you, not with pity, but with love and admiration for how bravely you handle every challenge. I'm not sure I could keep up with you!