Good morning. I am 7 weeks out from surgery and dealing issues with what I thought was my support system. When I started this journey over a year ago, I was doing it in secret and handling everything myself. Once zi had crushed the milestones I needed to, I went to my sister for support. I explained why I was having it, what it was going to help with, and more importantly, I asked her to be my 'person' through this. I have obstructive sleep apnea and fatty liver disease. This isn't just a whim to go under the knife.
Well she initially agreed but as since February-ish, she is telling me I don't need it, I am doing fine on my own and it is a bad decision. She keeps talking to OTHER people about it and getting horror stories to convince me. I firmly believe it's jealousy and she is deflecting her own weight issues and not being able to lose it on to my success.
She did it again last night. I haven't been discussing it with her for about a month or so now. I asked her to come to support group meetings, I asked her to meet or sit with me when I had my surgical consult, she would do none of it. She said she would and then she would always be busy.
Anyone else have issues with their so-called support system to where you had to change to another person and stop discussing it with your family?
Thanks!
Rox
Well she initially agreed but as since February-ish, she is telling me I don't need it, I am doing fine on my own and it is a bad decision. She keeps talking to OTHER people about it and getting horror stories to convince me. I firmly believe it's jealousy and she is deflecting her own weight issues and not being able to lose it on to my success.
She did it again last night. I haven't been discussing it with her for about a month or so now. I asked her to come to support group meetings, I asked her to meet or sit with me when I had my surgical consult, she would do none of it. She said she would and then she would always be busy.
Anyone else have issues with their so-called support system to where you had to change to another person and stop discussing it with your family?
Thanks!
Rox