Pat, you sound so much like me. Unless I am expecting an important call, I out my phone on vibrate or give it to my daughter so I can sleep. I also have a special lock on my door so my grandkids can't get it open. I have been getting sleepy around 10:30 or so and have to get up at 4am with my hubby. I then go back to bed at 5:15 or so depends on what time he leaves for work. Then I get maybe an hour and a half then its up to use the bathroom, then back to sleep for about 45 minutes or so. Once I get up, I am ok, but usually by 2pm I am ready for a nap, not that I always get one, just depends on what is going on that day. I have tried different sleeping pills, I take over the counter stuff, some times Legatrin, which is for RLS and it helps me sleep. Melatonin helps too, but I dont like that groggy feeling the next day. Sometimes other pills will do that to me too. And I refuse to take prescription sleep meds because I saw what they did to my mom and I don't want to be like that too.