3momchaos
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Y’all know I am totally open about my gastric bypass, but recently I’ve been having issues with people asking me how they should lose weight, what to eat, what diet is best, and things along those lines. My mom and aunt are probably the worst about it, neither of them need to lose more that 30 lbs, but I keep explaining to both of them that the way I eat is for my new self, that they need to do what works for them. Other than telling them to make sure they’re getting enough protein and control serving sizes, I don’t make any suggestions. They self deprecate once second then compliment me the next, “You look skinnier every time I see you, and I look fatter!”, is the one I hear the most. I always tell them that neither are true, because they aren’t. Other people have just asked for tips and tricks, and I’ll say portion size, protein, and strong mentality, so that’s not so bad. Anyone else have people who literally want them to create an eating plan for them?! I’m trying to be sensitive with them, but at the same time if they’re both really serious they need to see a dietitian or someone who can really help with their individual needs. Plus they’re driving me crazy about it!