3momchaos
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My 12 y/o son is SO much like me that when I see his eating habits, it stresses me out because I don’t want him to end up like me. He is big for his age but big all around. He’s almost 5’5 and weighs 165lbs. Yesterday he saw a new doctor, and I asked him to do some blood work for a concern unrelated to his weight. I got some of the results back today, and his triglycerides are through the roof! They’re higher than mine were before I had surgery. I have tried to talk to him in the past about how quickly he eats, how much food he shovels in at once, and the amount he eats, but he just doesn’t understand. He also sneaks food. I’ve found wrappers and trash hidden in couch cushions and his room. The crazy part is he is extremely active and loves fruits, veggies, seafood, and good meats. I’ve cut down the amount of carb loaded and starchy foods I buy just because I personally don’t want the temptation in front of me. I guess we’ll be making more changes to our whole families eating, but I’m trying to figure out the best, most positive way to go about doing this. He’s transitioning into his teen years, and he already has body confidence issues because he’s been made fun of for being fat, but I also don’t want this to look like a diet. I want him to realize these changes are for long term health benefits. I feel like a bad mom that he’s in this position, but I’d be a bad mom if I didn’t worry. I don’t want him to develop a food complex, so I’m not sure the best way to go about this. Any helpful advice is welcome along with any food ideas for helping with lowering triglycerides.