So, I have been with my wife for 17 years. We have been on the YO-YO life together forever. Usually it is me trying to loose weight and she eats what I cook so naturally she looses weight too.
Without getting into details, things have changed a bit. I believe she is an alcoholic, she obviously disagrees.
Anyway, this time around she has not lost any weight. She does eat what I cook, but I guess she is munching and/or the alcohol calories are adding up.
She is and has been VERY supportive since day one!
Point: The other day she asked me how much weight I had lost and that I look so skinny. When I told her she said "you are about to weigh less than me" and I said.. that has never happened because you usually loose weight with me so I never catch "down" to you. She then sharply responded "Well, I don't have half of a stomach".
It literally brought tears to my eyes and I said "That is an EXACT example of why I didn't want to tell people I had surgery". They discount my progress and my hard work and basically think the surgery did everything." as tears dripped from my eyes.
She then said sorry she didn't mean it like that. I really don't think she meant harm but it stabbed me like a knife!
This is literally the exact reason I chose to keep my surgery to myself.
Sorry for my rant, but I wanted to share with people I thought would understand why it was hurtful.
Without getting into details, things have changed a bit. I believe she is an alcoholic, she obviously disagrees.
Anyway, this time around she has not lost any weight. She does eat what I cook, but I guess she is munching and/or the alcohol calories are adding up.
She is and has been VERY supportive since day one!
Point: The other day she asked me how much weight I had lost and that I look so skinny. When I told her she said "you are about to weigh less than me" and I said.. that has never happened because you usually loose weight with me so I never catch "down" to you. She then sharply responded "Well, I don't have half of a stomach".
It literally brought tears to my eyes and I said "That is an EXACT example of why I didn't want to tell people I had surgery". They discount my progress and my hard work and basically think the surgery did everything." as tears dripped from my eyes.
She then said sorry she didn't mean it like that. I really don't think she meant harm but it stabbed me like a knife!
This is literally the exact reason I chose to keep my surgery to myself.
Sorry for my rant, but I wanted to share with people I thought would understand why it was hurtful.