I have a lap band and still do not tolerate bread or rice. However, the high protein pastas in small amounts seem to work for me. I don't know about the sleeve but with the lap band sugar does not cause dumping and that is why I have to be so careful about sugar. It is so easy to digest that some lap band patients tend to overdo it. What I do is eat protein first, then vegetables (which have to be well cooked) then finally some good quality carbs. If I have room I can have a small piece of dessert but always must stop eating as soon as I am full so dessert is rarely an option. I use a cake plate (even at my relatives homes) and limit myself to one serving. So far I don't tolerate pork, bar b q (beef or pork) but I do well with chicken, small steaks (rarely), all fish (not fried), and finally can enjoy some salads. I don't know what your diet instructions are but I didn't even try much of anything for six weeks. Two weeks on liquids, two weeks on full liquids, then two weeks on soft, then let loose to try pretty much what I tolerated. Still working on it. Your family will enjoy eating what you can have, trust me. My family loves fried chicken and they always get me or make grilled chicken for me. I cook for them too on occasion and then fix myself something different if I can't tolerate what they want. You can work it out. Instead of sandwiches I use roll ups with chicken, ham or turkey, some cheese in the middle and a lettuce leaf on the outside. Oh, the medical assistant at my center says she tolerates pita bread, but I do not. I can tolerate a flour tortilla once in while now but I would check and make sure that is ok with your center or diet plan. The recipe section is a good place to start. My center also shares recipes. I get some at my support group too. Joy