Hey Ducky,
I think we all have little bit different situations and programs.
Are you keeping a food journal?
Have you met with a dietician that works especially with bariatric patients?
I met w/ours a little earlier in the process & found the consultation very helpful and encouraging.
You can do this ... stick to the fight when your hardest hit ... when things seem worse, you musn't quit.
All your questions are great and valid. Ask someone on the team where you're having your surgery.
I'm 46 and having my surgery this coming Wed at Froedert & Medical College of WI. There is a good sized team that makes up the Bariatric Center of Excellence.
Make a list of your questions and call, e-mail whatever and find out who you can speak with about them.
I've found that asking questions has worked well & in certain situations I've gone back to my PCP for assistance & she's always helped & been supportive.
I didn't think I would get insurance approval either. It's long process and there's a lot of paperwork submitted. I found out after the fact that our insurance actually outsources the screening process to yet another company. When I finally got approval I still had questions & called back to the insurance submission contact in our program to help me understand all the language about things being covered and then procedures before the surg not being covered, etc. Then the 1st letter from our provider's tpa said I was approved for 2 days of confinement - seriously, that's the word they used. But the dates were 01/01/12 to 01/03/12 with a letter dated May 24, 2012?
Anyone see a problem here? I called the date after I received the letter & they said they had the procedure as 06/06/12.
They sent another letter with the correct dates on them; I'm not taking any chances with this insurance approval stuff.
I honestly think that the program wouldn't be working with you if there wasn't a serious possbility of your insurance covering your procedure. Additionally they have probably worked with providers with initial denials to get the surgery coverage.
Now to figure out what works for you -- great to hear your exercising --- find out what you really should be eating in prep; write down the questions as you think of them.
You can do this; it's not like you've gained 25 lbs after an initial weigh in.
The weight will come off and you will feel better soon.
Best of everything - Mary