Hi my name is Lois VanGilder and I live in West Virginia. I am 3 months into my 6 months of dieting so my surgery will be in January. I cant decide which surgery I want to have. I think I'd like to have the sleeve done, however my team told me that type 2 diabetes isn't always resolved with this. I like the face that everything is still the way it should be but with a smaller stomach. I really want to get rid of my diabetes. My motivation for having this surgery is to be more healthy and if I have to do the bypass to be more healthy then that's what I'll do. Several of my close friends know other people that had bypass and they feel like it greatly changed their personalities, making them more introverted and depressed. Any thoughts on the subject???? I realize the decision is ultimately mine but I do value other opinions. Help!!!!
Hi Lois!!! WELCOME to the Forum!!!
I the had the RNY Gastric Bypass almost 15 months ago and have lost a great deal of weight and feel SUPER WONDERFUL!!!! I have always been a happy person preferring to see my glass half full rather than half empty. I had the gastric bypass because my weight had gotten out of control and my health was deteriorating. I had a wonderful life, a great husband who passed away 4 years ago, and great kids and grandkids. I had a car accident about 6 yrs ago which made me immobile because my knees were slammed into the dashboard and I broke my elbow. I had been overweight for many years but very active. After the accident I gained another 100 pounds because I sat around a lot because of my knee pain. Even with my problems, I have never been depressed because I enjoy life even sitting watching tv.
I decided to go for the gastric bypass surgery because I had terrible breathing problems, a pulmonary embolism, sleep apnea, my oxygen level were way down, they said I was pre-diabetic because I was insulin resistant according to blood tests even though my sugar levels were still normal. I was on 2 blood pressure medicines and I had heart failure due to lack of oxygen and too much carbon dioxide when I had my pulmonary embolism.
Before surgery I was very excited yet scared. The operation was not very painful at all. I was really surprised, I was a little sore but it wasn't bad at all. I have lost about 197 lb since my highest weight and 168lb since my surgery. I still have weight to loose but I feel so much better, I'm off almost all my medication, I only take medicine for gout in my toe and occasionally a water weight pill, and of course I take my vitamins and minerals. My cardiologist did tests last week and my heart is so much stronger, it's in normal range now and my pre-diabetes is gone, my insulin resistance is gone and I feel like a million bucks! I have had no change in my disposition except to be even happier now that I now can walk in Walmart, the Mall, Petsmart, Petco and many other places that I love to go and feel great! When I see my reflection in the store Windows, I see a normal looking person instead of a huge obese person, and that makes me even happier! If anyone is depressed after having a gastric bypass, then something else is going on in their life. Why would losing weight, getting healthier, feeling wonderful, being able to breathe again, buying new clothes because all your old clothes fall off you, make anyone unhappy and depressed? There are many others on this forum who have had the bypass who are very happy, upbeat people who are super excited about their weight loss, too. The Gastric Bypass saved my life and I thank the good Lord above every day that I had this surgery. I would do it over in a New York second.
Good luck to you,
Cheyenne