Thank you for your advise. I just want this to work. Other people just don't get it. Unless you have been through this, you just don't understand. This is not a fix all. It takes work. I am very thankful for this support group.
IT seems that the surgery forces you to be on a diet without much option to not be compliant. I have a hard time journaling food etc but will have to I suppose. I go tomorrow, to speak to the doc and find out when I get a date and when I start the diet to lose weight prior to surgery etc. I think will do it mid November or so IF they can fit me in there.