I have to say i don't know what is wrong with me. I have spent a lot of time, money and energy in the last year to get this surgery. I had my surgery on March 15. I have been back at work & school since the 29th and it has been crazy non stop 12 hour days at work, then trying to get my own homework done, kids ballgames, housework etc. No different than any other parent. I had posted a little while back about being frustrated about a stall in weight loss. That is still happening. I am eating about 500 calories a day and usually right under my water mark. I have not lost anything in the last 10 days according to my app/and scales. I know you guys said to stop weighing daily, but I seem to be obsessed with checking which I know is a problem. Yes - I have an appointment later this week with my counselor . This checking obsession has gotten worse since my surgery. Today has been more stressful than normal with some issues with the hubby which is another reason for the appointment with the counselor.... I don't see many talking about having marital issues after their surgeries. But mine seems to have created some serious resentment and arguments the last few weeks. All of this info to say what I am most ashamed of -- I really messed up today and went totally off what I was supposed to eat and ate a candy bar. I am so ashamed - what is the point of having gone through all this work, effort and being cut up to just stupidly do the same things all over again?????