Nymiria
Member
Hey friends!
I'm having the sleeve on June 1st and I can. not. wait!!!!!!!! I am so excited. I want to talk about it all the time - and there's the problem. I haven't told anyone besides my husband!
I feel like I want to tell my best friend because, well, she's my best friend and I know she cares for me and loves me - but I don't want to tell her because she's never struggled with weight and she can be a bit crunchy granola about things - which means me having a surgery would be the last thing she would do if that makes sense.
Should I tell her? How do I tell her? Do I tell other people when I start losing the weight or just keep it private? I'm honestly embarassed because there is already stigma about being heavy in the first place - and the biggest reason I am worried about telling people is I'm so scared if it fails. So worried about failing!
What did you guys do? Any advice? Thanks so much!
I'm having the sleeve on June 1st and I can. not. wait!!!!!!!! I am so excited. I want to talk about it all the time - and there's the problem. I haven't told anyone besides my husband!
I feel like I want to tell my best friend because, well, she's my best friend and I know she cares for me and loves me - but I don't want to tell her because she's never struggled with weight and she can be a bit crunchy granola about things - which means me having a surgery would be the last thing she would do if that makes sense.
Should I tell her? How do I tell her? Do I tell other people when I start losing the weight or just keep it private? I'm honestly embarassed because there is already stigma about being heavy in the first place - and the biggest reason I am worried about telling people is I'm so scared if it fails. So worried about failing!
What did you guys do? Any advice? Thanks so much!