3momchaos
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For those of you who’ve followed me along on my journey, I’ve had a pretty easy time of it. I did not go into my first appointment with many expectations because I know for me that if those expectations weren’t met, I’d be disappointed and more likely to have troubles. When asked for a goal weight I gave them a goal range because I didn’t want to be stuck on a number, and the dietitian and counselor were happy with that.
What I wanted most from the surgery, which I remember saying in my first dietitian and counselor appointments was that I wanted joint pain relief. It was a want, but I also expected it. Unfortunately that’s not the case for me. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t have foot pain like I used to, but my other joints sometimes hurt worse now than before. Being diagnosed with fibromyalgia after losing all the weight I needed was a big surprise for me. I always blamed (and so did all my doctors) my pain on my weight.
I’ve been in a bit of a funk recently coming to the realization that the weight loss isn’t going to solve the big picture of my pain. But I also know that expectations need to be flexible. Without this surgery I probably would have never been diagnosed with fibro. I’ve got a lot to be grateful for because of my weight loss surgery.
It’s ok to be momentarily disappointed or fall off track, but it’s about changing momentum and realizing that the plans in the beginning don’t have to keep being the plans as time moves forward.
What I wanted most from the surgery, which I remember saying in my first dietitian and counselor appointments was that I wanted joint pain relief. It was a want, but I also expected it. Unfortunately that’s not the case for me. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t have foot pain like I used to, but my other joints sometimes hurt worse now than before. Being diagnosed with fibromyalgia after losing all the weight I needed was a big surprise for me. I always blamed (and so did all my doctors) my pain on my weight.
I’ve been in a bit of a funk recently coming to the realization that the weight loss isn’t going to solve the big picture of my pain. But I also know that expectations need to be flexible. Without this surgery I probably would have never been diagnosed with fibro. I’ve got a lot to be grateful for because of my weight loss surgery.
It’s ok to be momentarily disappointed or fall off track, but it’s about changing momentum and realizing that the plans in the beginning don’t have to keep being the plans as time moves forward.