bARBARA J tomorrow this time it is all behind you surgery wise, then you are on your journey to a new, healthier life. Best to you and PLEASE let us know how you are doing so those of us who have not gone yet can know you are ok and what it is like for you. You will be in my thougths tomorrow and I KNOW YOU WILL DO GREAT AND YOUR FRIEND WILL BE FINE TOO, she is just either worried or jealous, either way, you cannot help her right now!