aleyva01
Member
Its been 11 days since surgery and my first week I had a positive attitude and was doing really great up until yesterday. I live at home with my parents and 2 brothers and our house is the entertaining house in our family where aunts, uncles, and cousins get together on weekends and holidays. This has been going on for years. A year ago I set out on this bariatric adventure and made many changes in poor eating habits, with mistakes and relapses along the way. I know its a never ending battle for me. Well there have been 2 weekends that have past since I've been home from the hospital (including the day I came home from the hospital) and still there are about 20 family members who come and bring food and bbq and eat and expect me to feel ok with it and sit and talk and carry on like nothing has changed. I refuse to go back to the old me, I didn't have this surgery to fail. I feel like they are setting me up to fail. Is it always going to be this hard? Is this happening to anyone else?? Help!!!!!