Terrislife777
Member
Hey everyone!
I have a dilemma. I am very very new on my WLS journey and I am trying to decide whether to tell people that I will be having surgery (when I get everything settled) or not say anything at all. I come from a very good and strong family who have always supported me in everything I wanted to do, the problem is I have never done anything this major before and I am not sure if they will be supportive this time. Also I (shamefully) used to make fun of WLs patients with my friends to make myself feel better, even though I was secretly envying them. So my friends have no idea either. I am alone right now (except for you all). And I am completely conflicted. Can anyone relate?
I have a dilemma. I am very very new on my WLS journey and I am trying to decide whether to tell people that I will be having surgery (when I get everything settled) or not say anything at all. I come from a very good and strong family who have always supported me in everything I wanted to do, the problem is I have never done anything this major before and I am not sure if they will be supportive this time. Also I (shamefully) used to make fun of WLs patients with my friends to make myself feel better, even though I was secretly envying them. So my friends have no idea either. I am alone right now (except for you all). And I am completely conflicted. Can anyone relate?